Snow as a sabbath

There has been a lot of reflection upon the snow, some still love it and want more, others are fed up with it and are wishing for the big thaw …. I’m not sure which camp I’m in really. Snow certainly disrupts, but in my experience is has not caused a shut down, but required a slowing down.

On my travels, both in car and on foot, I have experienced people thinking they can act normally and travel at their normal speeds in snow. I have watched them get into difficulties. People running and sliding onto their arses! People revving car engines and traveling sideways. I’ve noticed others slowing down as they walk, drivers gently pressing their accelerators and completing their respective journey’s with no problems at all.

Last week, I re-tweeted this from twittugies:

Snow slows our world;
deepens our sense of silence.
Places our plans on hold.
Calls us home.
Snow in its own way is a Sabbath.

Snow as a Sabbath – I like that thought!

thermometer vs thermostat

It’s cold outside, and it’s very white. It looks beautiful. I love snow, but I must admit I am getting a bit bored of this now as de-icing car doors to get in and scrape the inside of the windscreen is becoming monotonous. I love plying in the snow, but I also love my role in Rochester and after being away for a week over Christmas, and being away for 3 weeks a week from today while in Seattle I want to be able to get in to Rochester.

So – I’m going to reflect on something different, but related. I was thinking about temperature and thermostats the other day because the heating had broken down in the house of a colleague. The thermostat had stopped working properly. I got to thinking about the difference between thermostats and thermometers. Thermometers simply record the temperature, while the thermostat controls and influences the temperature. By sheer accident I came across this quote from Martin Luther King speaking of the early church:

The church was not merely a thermometer that recorded the ideas and principles of popular opinion; it was a thermostat that transformed the mores of society.

That has challenged me in my thinking and forces me to ask – ‘am I merely a thermometer that refects the status quo, or am I a thermostat that looks to make a transforming difference within society?’

I’m not sure I want to be a ‘history maker’ as Delirious sing, as that sounds full of self importance to me, but I do wish to see transformation both in my life and in the lives of those I spend time with.

As I was having these thoughts I discovered that the Epistle reading for the 8am BCP Eucharist which I am responsible for on Sunday morning is Romans 12:1-5 …. where Paul talks of transformation by the renewing of the mind …. a bit like being a thermostat. I think I may have my homily sorted for Sunday morning!

new year dreams

On New Years Eve 10 of us went down to the beach at Porth to mark the start of the new year by launching sky lanterns.

The night was amazingly still with a near full moon. The sea was flat and calm. We found a small cove and cave which gave us shlter as we lit the lanterns. They looked amazing as they floated off.

As the lanterns floated people either made wishes, resolutions or prayed. I thanked God for the past year, thanked him for the people I was with and ‘wondered with God’ what 2010 will bring.

the cafe of peace

We have had an excellent time in Cornwall staying with Andrew and Sarah in Porth. While there we had lunch in Cafe Irie which was a wonderfully beautiful place. I would say this was a highlight of the short trip, but that would imply there were lowlights … and the whole time was fantastic.

Cafe Irie, though, is a special place that I would love to visit again. A cafe with great staff, good atmosphere, great drinks (Banana and Peanut butter smoothies which just have to be tried because they are amazing!!!) Irie itself means ”to be at total peace with your current state of being’

I was not there long before I said ‘this is what I think church should be like’. There was a strong community feel about the place. People had opportunity to participate or just eat and drink. Board games were available to play, as was a piano with a note saying play us a tune if you’d like to. The decor of sofas and drapes gives a wonderful relaxed feel and the interesting collection of local art brings things off to a tee and brings a smile to your face. There was a certain individuality about the menu which I think invited people to be creative and try things anew …. in a way it was some kind of implicit challenge to be yourself, the person you were always meant to be; and I think this has something of what church should encourage.

Church … a place where you can be, and are allowed to be, at total peace with your current state of being. By that I don’t mean we become complacent. Nor do I mean that we are refusing to change … but that I have a dream of church being a place where we are at total peace with who we are because we are able to say we are totally at ease with what God is doing within us and with integrity say we are allowing God to work within us and allowing God to be God.

have a blessed Christmas

may we all gain the wonder and acceptance of Mary as we celebrate the birth of the saviour

have a great and blessed Christmas

Our traditions!

Christmas is close and today, after I did a little bit of study on my study day (come on … cut me some slack!!!) we went to the dreaded Bluewater. This has become an annual custom of the Ryans. Gone are the days when Sarah and I bought the presents from our children to each other and to us. Now we seem to have developed our little tradition of going to Bluewater, giving each child and equal amount of money after discussing possible presents for each other and letting them go.

Our eldest, Tom, goes off on his own and sorts things and today I wandered with Beth first, we then met for coffee so that Beth and Joe can swap parents and but the last one without us knowing what it is. We then go somewhere fro dinner and come home. It’s very civilised and gives the children some early budgeting experience. It’s also quite fun to see them making decisions such as ‘If I but this for x then I only have this much money left for y’ … and so on. As I said it’s quite a bit of fun.

That tradition has developed and happened today which must mean that Chrstmas is very close. Tomorrow is Christmas Eve when we follow another long held family tradition which is an early evening party with cake to sing Happy Birthday to Jesus. We shall be doing this tomorrow with good friends and family members. It started when our children were very little and we have tried to stop it a few times – but our children will not let us!

It’s funny how traditions can get a hold of us and become difficult to let go! Not that, in these two cases, I am wanting to!

Shoplifting

It seems the press have, yet again, taken a person’s words totally out of context to try and blow something that is not there into a major issue –  in this case it is the turn of  Father Tim Jones in York Diocese who, inn his sermon last week, suggested those who are the most vulnerable and forgotten and let down in our society might consdier shop lifting from large national businesses.

Before you shout angrily read Father Tim’s full sermon here and then make your minds up about what he is saying. Thanks Alice for linking to this.

christmas is getting closer

we did a lot of things this weekend … which kind of started early die to the snow.
One of the things we did was put up and decorate our Christmas tree – are you impressed?

Burma – £15 could make a massive difference!

Please respond to this letter if you can – £15 is such a small amount of money!

Dear friend,

I wanted to write to you about my first hand experiences of the brutal
regime in Burma. It’s often said that Christmas is a time for children and
what I saw just a few weeks ago is not something you’d choose to read about
at this time of year, or at any other time. But as you are someone who does
not turn their backs on the people in Burma, I’m sure that you will want to
know.

Eastern Burma is turning into the Darfur for the next decade – and we need
your support with a donation of £15 today to help prevent this from
happening.

You can donate here.

I was on the Thai/Burma border to show a delegation of UK trade unionists
the situation and to run some training sessions with local groups & other
activists. There I also spoke to a woman, a mother, who has managed to cross
the border to Thailand with her two young children and escape slavery.

Mublaw is 40 years old and is from a village in Pa an district in Eastern
Burma. It was a small village with less than 40 houses and around 200 people
in total. Armed supporters of the dictatorship in Burma came to their
village in June this year. All the villagers were forced to go with them to
carry their food and military equipment. For four nights, Mublaw was made to
carry three rocket launchers on her back, whilst clutching her 6 month old
baby and dragging her 3 year old toddler as they walked.

Amongst the party, children as young as nine years old were forced to carry
heavy equipment to prevent them from being able to escape. Mublaw was given
two small packs of low quality rice each day, which she flavoured with a
little chilli powder. This was the only nutrition Mublaw and the two
children received.

The soldiers forbade the children to cry. So Mublaw had to cover her baby’s
mouth at all times. They were also not allowed to stop, so children had to
simply wet themselves as they walked. The villagers were not given any
water. They had to wait for it to rain and ask permission to drink the rain
as they moved.

The former villagers, who are now over the border in Thailand, are just
surviving. Some of them risked their lives going back to their families in
Burma.

This story of Mublaw, her children and the villagers is just part of the
human rights abuses in Eastern Burma today. As the Burmese regime has
increased their militarization in the last year, it has meant that at least
75,000 people became refugees and more than half a million were internally
displaced in Eastern Burma.

But Mublaw and the others have not suffered the most. An alliance of 12 aid
organisations stated that:

“crimes against humanity are taking place comparable to the situation in
Darfur” 

A report commissioned from Harvard Law School stated:

“…forced displacement of over 3,000 villages in eastern Burma, and
widespread and systematic sexual violence, torture, and summary execution of
innocent civilians. Yet… the UN Security Council has not moved to
investigate potential crimes against humanity or war crimes in Burma, as it
has in other areas of the world, including Darfur and Rwanda.”

In January 2010, the Burma Campaign UK will step up this campaign. We will
be calling for more aid to deal with the immediate human rights abuses. And
we will be lobbying for an investigation into crimes against humanity in
Burma.

We will be lobbying the UK government to support this investigation. As yet
they have not admitted that these crimes against humanity are happening. We
need the UK government to acknowledge this and then to call for a UN
Commission of Inquiry.

And we need your support with a donation of £15 today to help us achieve
this key campaign goal.

The Burma Campaign has had significant success in 2009. We played a key role
in the campaign for a global arms embargo against Burma. Together with our
partners across the world we have begun to build a global consensus for a UN
arms embargo against Burma, in order to help overcome expected opposition at
the Security Council by Russia and China. We have 32 countries supporting
the embargo, recently including the first Asian country. This has been
possible due to the commitment of supporters like you.

Your support of the Burma Campaign UK does turn into positive action for the
people of Burma. That’s why we need you to donate £15 today so that the
innocent victims in Burma – people like Mublaw, her baby and her young child
– don’t face abuse by the Burmese dictatorship for years ahead.

Many thanks for your support.

Mark Farmaner
The Burma Campaign UK

Forgotten hooks

This weeks theme at Photo Friday is best of 2009.
I took this picture at Tyneham – a village near Lulworth Cove that people had to leave because the War office decided they needed it. You can read the interesting story here.
The photo is taken in the cloakroom of the school, the hooks still have the names of the last pupils that hung their coats there.
The open door talks to me of the people leaving village while the reflection of the tree suggests nature reclaiming the space for herself, which is evident if you get to visit this place.
The door handle resembles a cross – which for me is an indication of who is in overall control no matter what happens.