surpassed expectations

Today surpassed expectations.

Spending so much time with Tom in the car, introducing him to YFC friends and seeing him apply himself to a variety of tasks has been a pleasure. There was a great mix of dedication to task with lots of fun and a mass of grace and love showed between people at YFC Head Office. Tom loved the day and when he got home did not stop talking about various people that he met – he’s buzzing after spending nerly 6 hours painting, moving desks etc.!

It was great to be part of and I am really glad that Tom has been able to experience the privilege it is to work with the people I do in YFC.
That was great – and now it’s holiday time!

Special and proud!

I’m looking forward to today.
But, I have a confession – I am posting this early and changing the date and time!
In fact by 7.00am tomorrow I will have been driving with Tom in the car for 90 minutes.
Today I am travelling to Head Office in Halesowen to do a bit of decorating and maintenance before we hand back the basement to the church that has kindly allowed YFC to base ourselves there for the last 10 years.
Today I am proud dad as Tom wants to travel with me. I reminded him that I leave at 5.30 to beat the traffic, and that it will be hard work painting and preparing walls etc. but he is still keen to be there.
So I am looking forward to joining friends at head office – but more looking forward to 6 hours of conversation with Tom in the car – that’s special!

c’ya Jim and Mags

Today was a sad and exciting day.
Earlier today we met the vicars house where we had a BBQ to say goodbye to Jim and Mags.
Sad because I will miss the Fndlay family who have been a part of our lives in the last 3 years that Jim has been curate at St. Marks. It’s always sad to say goodbye.
Exciting as Jim and Mags are taking on the leadership of St Mark Salisbury.

I pray that God will blesss themall and that Salisbury will very soon feel like home. God … bring good friends around tham quickly that will be an encourageent and anchor to them, that will be a blessing and a refreshment. God, give them vision and the ability to see it through. Amen.

last LG3 day … what next

Yesterday was an amazing day – the last day of Love Gilingham 3.
All the churches of Gillingham cancelled their morning service to attend a united worship service at the sports centre. There were around 500 people there which was quite mind blowing. Jim and I had the pleasure of continuing our ‘double act’ of leading the LG mornings into Sunday and I ended the service by getting people to look around and realise that this was the church of Gillingham.

I don’t like big. I think small is better and small Christian communities of around the 30 size are, in my mind, the ideal. Sunday, however, was special as it can remind us of our place in the wider church.

In our own churches it is easy to think that this is how it is, that we re the only ones who care. This can breed a kind if isolation mentality. With an isolation mentality vision becomes scarce s we fer trying anything. Getting together, seeing others from different traditions and different opinions uniting for one event can serve to enable vision. It was certainly encouraging to remind myself that I am part of something that is not only ancient in origin, but is far bigger than I realise most of the time. From the front it was great to see peoples faces as they looked around and realised the size of God’s church in Gillingham.

After the service we were joined by those we had met in the week and invited to a BBQ and fun day at the sports centre. It was a privilege again to witness the engagement between different people groups and the growth of new friendships across the community. This is true mission – people being loved and accepted with no expectations placed upon them.

The challenge for us is how to we move on. For three years we have staged various events and there is now a feeling that we need to show this acceptance and love (i.e. bring in the Kingdom)in regular realistic and achievable, but ordinary and simple, ways in Gillingham.

I have loved LG3 as I have loved previous years. I am sad at the end and have a desire to see an expression of this develop as part of the DNA of the Christian community in Gillingham.

For those of you coing here for pics – the last days photos may be found here.

Ordinary-ness


Today was the last day of practical projects of Love Gillingham. The Day 3 photos may be found here.

Looking back on my tea we have filled 12 massive skips in 3 days of ordinary rubbish that people have just allowed to accumulate over the years in their houses or back gardens. Last night we had 2 skips delivered to an estate ready for us to fill today. By 9am this morning, as I drove past to check they had been delivered, I discovered that the skips had already been filled. I guess this just showed how much of a need there is in the places we have been to help people get rid of the rubbish that the council won’t normally take.

The other teams working t=in retirement homes and running a drop in at the back of St Mark’s Church have had equally confirming experiences that the projects have been meeting a need – that need to be valued, given time, accepted, loved, supported and listened to.

This morning Melvyn, the pastor from Gillingham Methodist, spoke on finding God in the ordinary everyday stuff that we do. In years to come people will not look back and remember Love Gillingham – but we are making a difference, even though it may be a fleeting one, in the lives of individuals. Today people are happy because they ahve experienecd a little of the Kingdom of God.

I went away after finishing clearing the church with Jim after people had left with an interesting thought in my mind based on a popular Christian song. I don’t won’t to be a history maker. I don’t want people to look back and remember great things. I want ordinary people to see experience the love of Jesus in their ordinary lives in ordinary ways. This is going to be the only way that these people with ordinary lives doing ordinary things are ever going to believe that they can connect with an extraordinary God.

LG3 day 2

Love Gillingham day 2 photos may be found by clicking here.
Lots more good conversations, signs of God, grace and gratitude, but I’ll have to write more about that later as I am tired and need to motivate myself to now jump in the shower before rushing off to watch Beth’s dance show in Maidstone and be the proud dad.

Love Gillingham 3 Day 1


Love Gillingham 3 started today.
Love Gillingham has the strap line of ‘showing the love of Jesus with no strings attached’. It’s a great mission statement, and it’s a mission statement that we should have 24/7 as Christians. This week is about being good news for people and not expecting or wanting anything in return.

It was great today to see from Christians from a number of local churches working together. People from different traditions forgetting the non-essential aspects of faith and uniting around the essentials that unite us.

After a morning of worship, teaching and prayer the teams had lunch before getting involved in various projects. The projects all seemed to go really well. Tom was involved in the retirement home again where he did some gardening and chatted to the people. Tom is developing a real love for OAP work and has done this for the last 3 years. Sarah, Beth and Joe were involved in a drop in at church for people to drop in for a drink and chat while there were activities such as face painting for their children. I was involved with many other great people in clearing rubbish from peoples homes in 3 different locations around the town. Today we have filled 4 massive 12 yard skips (or the equivalent).

The rubbish teams today have cleared greenhouses, rubble, trampolines, baths, toilets, wood, tables, chairs and much more. While all the ‘stuff’ has been happening in the teams, something very special has been happening. We have been chatting with people and in those conversations I believe we have seen God at works in the lives of people outside the church.

Today I have seen in the hospitality and love of God in various ways in peoples actions:
through the lady and her 3 children who invited us all in for a cup of tea
through the old gentlemen who brought out a carefully wrapped sheet of glass for the skip as he did not want us to be cut
through the lady who wanted to buy my t-shirt
the person who wanted to reward us with a donation

It was great to be reminded today that God is loving Gillingham and very much at work here.

The photo shows a local councillor opening the event and you can see the photos of today by clicking on y Flickr album or by clicking here.

Divine Love rather than Judgement

Glad to see that Simon over at Ekklesia is continuing to draw our attention to those speaking sense and being a blessing in pointing out where the God who is love really is in the floods.

Labels R4 Jars

I attended the launch of Labels R4 Jars not young people today.
Sadly the press never showed up, despite the fact the launch was held in St Brides Fleet Street.
The campaign is asking for a more factual and positive image to be presented in the media. It seems the media did not want to come and listen to some research which evaluates the accuracy of its recording – a shame.
The research may be downloaded from the FYT website and makes some interesting findings:

adults overestimate crime committed by young people by a factor of 100%
75% adults believe youth crime is rising, when the actual yearly rate is falling
80% people think youth crime is getting worse, however there has been no growth in the level of crime committed by young people
61% said they based their view of young people on what the media portrayed

The press should have been present to hear this – we need to involve ourselves in celebrating the achievements of our young people, in portraying the mass of fantastic stuff the overwhelming majority of young people do.

In case you were wondering … the pic … it’s Bishop Roger Sainsbury in a hoody in a jar!

New beginnings

It’s also been an emotional church weekend.
Today it was great to see 4 people confirmed by Bishop Brian this morning at St. Marks.
Yesterday we enjoyed a Hog Roast to say bye to Jim and mags and this morning we presented Jim with a farewell gift of a data projector.
Loads of us are going to miss Jim and Mags in so many different ways.
A series of new beginnings for a lot of people.
(for those of St Marks interested more photos of Hog Roast in the flickr album)