Basingstoke

Left the house early this morning at around 5.40am, something I strangely enjoy, to miss traffic, have breakfast and do a couple of hours work before meeting with the people in Basingstoke to appoint the person to develop youth work with the Warham Trust and plant Basingstoke YFC.

The day went excellently and it was a privilege to be able to interview 2 outstanding candidates. The real excitement during the day was that during deliberations God worked incredibly powerfully so show us His choice so that we were able to agree unanimously who to make the offer to.

There is always a sad tinge to interviewing as you are inevitably upsetting someone, and I wish there was a better way to decide things, but today seemed to work well.

Soon we will be able to share who this God chosen person for this role is.

New Director for Chislehurst YFC

I spent the afternoon in Chilsehurst YFC today interviewing for the next director there. We’ve offered the job to an excellent person so I hope they accept it!

trains, people, changes …

After the Rob Bell meeting I tubed across London to catch up with Ruth who is the director of Waltham Forest YFC. Ruth has an incredibly exciting vision and it is always more than a pleasure to go see her and spend time listening and praying. In a few weeks we are running an Art of Connecting course with some Newham youth workers which I am really looking forward to.

On the way back two interesting things happened on both the tube and the train to Gillingham.

On the tube I was reading the final chapter of the book ‘So you don’t want to goto church anymore?’ when the guy sitting next to me asked if I was a Christian and we had a great conversation. He has just started going to Kensington Temple and wanted to know more about YFC and what we do. People don’t talk to each other on the tube! Could this be a sign of the precence of God? Could things be changing?

On the train there was an unusually jovial atmospher with people smiling at each other despite the fact the train was crowded and loads were having to stand. There was a young girl of about 5 who was just being a young girl and then she asked a profound question: ‘mum, whay are we all trapped in here?’ A prophetic word maybe?

The question resonated with nearly every commuter … why indeed to we put ourselves through this everyday? It’s always refreshing to get a childs perspective!

Healthiness – what is it?

I have been thinking about signs of healthiness. I am trying to write an article for the YFC supporters magazine, IntoView, and I need a lot more inspiration at the moment. It’s only 500 words – which I think makes the task a little tougher!

On Sunday at the Tate Modern, Sarah made an interesting observation. As we looked out of the magnificent Tate window across the city to St Paul’s and beyond, Sarah drew my attention to the amazing number of tall cranes there were dotted around the skyline. A massive amount of building is going on. The London skyline, which probably stayed fairly constant for a very long time, is continually changing and it is quite hard to remember the landscape without the London Eye, the Gherkin or Canary Wharf. Sarah’s observation was that things must be quite healthy, and that people with the money must feel quite confident to be willing to fund this level of building.

I guess Sarah is right. If something is healthy, the natural outcome of that must be growth. Healthy things grow, they cannot help it. It is just what happens. If something is unhealthy is stays static, then withers, then dies.

We have an example of this at home at the moment. I have two bonsais. One is healthy and growing like crazy. The other is poorly and no matter what I do, it seems to be dieing on me. I want it to grow, but it seems no matter what I do, it won’t – namely because it is no longer a healthy specimen.

I think in Christian ministry we look for growth, expect growth, and want growth but often try to achieve that without putting in the hard graft that is necessarily associated with being healthy. Healthiness needs personal care, attention to detail, planning of time, balanced diets, exercise and all that kind of stuff. Healthiness does not usually happen by chance – or does it?

Is there a difference in how we achieve a physical healthiness and a spiritual healthiness? Or do both need the same principles of diet, exercise, balance to flourish?

I wonder, too, whether we can sometimes try too hard. I would suggest that in my spiritual life that it is in my trying that I lose focus on what I am about. Spirituality becomes an aim, rather than a relationship with Creator God. When I realise I am no longer trying hard to pray each day, or study the Bible that my relationship with God is healthier because I naturally spend time with God in my everyday stuff. A result of that health is that I want to pray and spend time in scripture.

Essentially what I am trying to say is that I long to have a healthy relationship with my creator, rather than a disciplined way of doing things on a regular basis – such as daily prayer or bible study. A relationship that results in a disciplined approach, rather than a disciplined approach trying to cause a relationship to develop.

London cluster


We had a great cluster yesterday with Geoff sharing his vision on prisons and Rich has written more about it here.I just wanted to get a bit of my own back on the picture front and draw attention to the fact that while we went to the Chandos to chat and eat lunch while Rich retreated like a hobbit to a stained glass window somewhere!

Mr & Mrs Expectant from Tunbridge Wells

It was a real pleasure and excitement to be in Tunbridge Wells this evening. I was at St Philips Church for the Tunbridge Wells Churches Together joint service to share a little about YFC with Pauline, one of our board members.

This was a good evening. Quite often ‘churches together’ services just don’t work, but this was different. The worship was vibrant, the atmopshere expectant, and people seemed to genuinely want to work together, and be together. This was quite an exciting evening.

It was great to be able to meet up with people too. It was good to see Den there with James and Keri, the 2 latest members of the Weald YFC team.

It was also excellent to be able to see good friends Brian and Karen again. Brian and Karen lead St Philips and are friends that go way back to St Mark’s youth work days – some 15 years ago! All of us still look young though!

Tom also came aong and worked excellently on the IT stuff for us – a new found gifting maybe! Cheers Tom!

Solent YFC

I’ve just got back from visiting the trustees of Solent YFC for the evening.
They have a new vision and are going to be advertising for a new director soon, so watch this space!

It was good to meet up to and catch up. If you are in the Solent area go check them out!

Awesome day

Today I met with 2 very different people but very close in terms of geography and desire.

This morning I met up with my good friend Den who is doing some fantastic stuff in his church and with Weald of Kent YFC. We chatted over our desires for mission and it was exciting to see Den well energised and excited about what God is doing. Den thinks he does normal stuff, but the truth is its extraordinary!

I then met up with Pauline in Tunbridge Wells who is on our board. Again, we chatted over our desires for mission and made plans for a mini-presentation we are putting together for Sunday evening to see if there may be mileage in a possible YFC centre in the town. Pauline has such a massive heart for reaching the young people of her town and it’s incredibly infectious.

Two different people.
Two different dreams.
Two different visions.
But one same desire.

Awesome day!

Spook (s) (ed)

The story of my day …

I left the house and Sarah looked on in a sense of uncomfortable anguish.
‘Where are you meeting this person?’
‘Junction 7 of the M3.’
‘And then ….?’, her eyes enquired with a little concern.
‘I am following his car down country lanes to an estate were I will be meeting with a few others’
‘But you don’t know who’s estate, or where it is?’
‘mmmm no – but don’t worry – it’ll be fine!’

I got in the car and tentatively set off at 7.15am, wondering if my long held secret desire of becoming a spook was about to be fulfilled.

The 90 minute journey took 3 hours. UK drivers don’t know how to drive in rain, or in snow, or even when it’s hot! At 10.15 I drove up the slip road of junction 7 to see a shiny black Mercedes parked on the side of the road. Slowly, out stepped a guy in dark shades, long black overcoat with a slight Mediterranean look.

‘Roberto Ryan… please follow me in zis car. We will be traveling quickly down some country lanes. Please turn off your GPS as you will not be needing that.’ As he smiled, the diamond in his tooth caught the light with a blinding flash.

I felt a bead of sweat, just the one, form on my forehead before trickling down the side of my face, gulped and followed the car down the lanes.

‘What am I doing?’ I said to myself as the car sped off and I followed…..

Ok – so some of that may be exaggeration. but today I did meet up at Junction 7 and was led off into a country estate where the Warham Fellowship, a rural fresh expression of church, meets.

Today was an exciting culmination of months of talking of planning as I met with Gordon and John. The Warham Trust and YFC are trying something new – with not a little risk!! There is a desire to establish a Basingstoke YFC and so the trust has found a good salary for 2 years to employ a youth worker that will develop the youth ministry with Warham, while working with local churches to establish Basingstoke YFC. Within 2 years we would hope to see a YFC centre planted in Basingstoke.

This is a unique and incredibly exciting opportunity. To have the backing to start something like this would be a great opportunity for the right person.The advert will be in Youth Work magazine but you can see it earlier here. If interested the closing date for applications is early January!

An encouraging day.

Today was a day where I feel I achieved a mass of stuff.
I got to grips with some study on the Kingdom of God (my chosen assignment title) this morning before shooting off to Cambridge to have lunch with a great guy called Jim who is the new YFC director there.

I listened to Jim’s story and heard about his dreams and we bounced a few ideas around. If you are in the Cambridge area you should get in touch!

On the way to and from Cambridge I was able to have 3 long phone conversations with people in centres. These were discussions of excitement and difficulties, the nitty gritty of youth ministry. It’s easy to think youth ministry is all glamour when in fact it is a lot of hard graft and sacrifice particularly as far as social life (people socialise at the same time than young people go to youth groups etc so you miss out on the gatherings), finance (youth workers are paid less than other generally), hassles (everyone blames young people and it’s always the youth workers fault.

I was reminded today that it is a real sacrifice to be in frontline youth ministry, although I do not believe there is a better job in the world to be called to!

So, if you know a youth worker – why not encourage them today and show them how much you appreciate what they are doing.